To those we love...

Dad and I have decided to start a blog for our family where we can continue to communicate, teach, and extend ourselves to those we miss and love so much. Now that everyone is spreading out on their own, we feel a need to keep connected to you and for you to keep connected with each other. Have fun and enjoy this site. love mom and dad

09 March, 2010

Work.
Source. President Uchtdorf conference address October 2009

Suggested song: Put Your Shoulder to the Wheel. Page 252
Suggested scriptures: Genesis 3:19, D&C 84:79, 2 Nephi 9:51

Pres. Uchtdorf says: "I would like to speak today about two important principles that sustained me through this formative period of my life." referring to his growing up in Germany after the war and the work he had to shoulder as a young man as well as enduring being made fun of and called names that deeply hurt. He states he learned that adversity when confronted with faith, courage and tenacity, could be overcome.

The first principle he talked about was--

WORK
A few statements from this talk follows;

How I admire men, women, and children who know how to work! How the Lord loves the laborer! He said, "in the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread, and "The laborer is worthy os his hire." He also gave a promise: "Thrust in your sickle with all your soul, and your sins are forgiven you." Those who are unafraid to roll up their sleeves and lose themselves in the pursuit of worthwhile goals are a blessing to their families, communities, nations, and to the Church.

Our Heavenly Father asks only that we do the best we can--that we work according to our full capacity, however great or small that may be.

Work is an antidote for anxiety, an ointment for sorrow, and a doorway to possibility.

Cultivate a reputation for excellence in all that we do.

Set our minds and bodies to the glorious opportunity for work that each new day presents.

Thomas Monson, "It is not enough to want to make the effort and to say we'll make the effort....It's in the doing, not just the thinking, that we accomplish our goals.
If we constantly put our goals off, we will never see them fulfilled.

Work can be ennobling and fulfilling.

Jacob's Warning: not to "spend...your labor for that which cannot satisfy." If we devote ourselves to the pursuit of worldly wealth and the glitter of public recognition at the expense of our families and our spiritual growth, we will discover soon enough that we have made a fool's bargain. The righteous work we do within the walls of our homes is most sacred; its benefits are eternal in nature.

We are only temporary travelers in this world. Let us not devote our God-given talents and energies solely to setting earthly anchors, but rather let us spend our days growing spiritual wings.

We, of course, brought these principles down to the laboratory of experiment--our home. The activity was to put the timer on and spend time cleaning up our home. This was not the most popular activity we have done and it never has been in the past. However, we accomplished much in the 45 minutes. We talked about the choice we can make in every unpleasant endeavor in life. We can roll up our sleeves and dig in with a great attitude knowing it is for the common good and comfort of those we love or we can choose a negative outlook and grumble and be miserable but still be required to do the work. I am really proud of Jacob. He turned his very negative attitude into a positive one and helped us out to the end. The house was neatly tidied, we got to talk while we cleaned, and he at the end actually offered to go the extra mile and finish up one of dad's tasks for him. Thanks Jake for an awesome attitude!{Katie we missed you but it was fun to do your part for you:>]

Dad and I realize that there are many things in life that are hard or unpleasant. It is easy to sit back and ignore those things and put them off. We also realize the importance of learning how to do hard things. It builds the character we need for conquering the hardships and trials life will hand out to all of us. We will learn tenacity, organizational skills, time management, cooperation, strength of body and soul, etc. etc. We were put on this earth to work and through working realizing our potentials and developing our physical and spiritual capacities.

Thank you Jenny, Dallin and Ashley, Megan, Katie, and Jacob for all your hard work and dedication to good things. We are proud of you for getting your education and Ashley for supporting Dallin in his, organizing your lives, and serving those in your circle of responsibilities. Dad and I love you and pray for you and your happiness in this life and in the eternities.

good morning everyone!

This morning is a bit gloomy, cold, and wintry. I'm so ready for spring. Looking forward to this weekend to have everyone home. I am grateful to be able to participate in Tyson's marriage to Candace. A temple message is such a beautiful experience. It is always a treat to go inside the doors and participate in the ordinance of eternal marriage. It brings my own covenants to the forefront of my memory and the obligations I have in our marriage and the blessings we receive and can continue to receive now, in the future, as well as throughout the eternities as we make the sacrifice to live and keep those covenants.

Last night Jacob, Dad and I had FHE. It was a bit different than having everyone here to participate. Of course it wasn't on our favorite subject. You have all heard it many times before growing up in this home. It is a principle very important but usually meets with a bit of grumpiness:> The subject was the principle of work. I will share our FHE below. I want to express my love and admiration to and for every one of you and the wonderful children you are. Your dad and all of you are my anchor in this life and my happiness. love mom

01 March, 2010

FEBRUARY FAMILY HOME EVEING

PRAYER
...THE RECOGNITION OF A POWER HIGHER THAN ONESELF IS EXALTING...

Be thou humble and the Lord Thy God will lead thee by the hand and give thee answers to thy prayers.

Boyd K. Packer: "Prayer is your personal key to heaven. The lock is on your side of the veil.

Elder Groberg: "How often do we not do more because we pray for wind and none comes? We pray for good things and they don't seem to happen, so we sit and wait and do no more. We should always pray for help, but we should always listen for inspiration and impressions to proceed in ways different from those we may have thought of."

For Strength of Youth: To help you become all that the Lord wants you to become, get on your knees each day and express to Him the desires of your heart. He is the source of all wisdom, and you need His help. He will hear and answer you.

Steps to effective prayer.
1. Make prayer meaningful.
2. Use language that shows respect, love, reverence and closeness.
3. Always give thanks.
4. Seek Heavenly Fathers guidance and strength in all you do.
5. Remember the needs of others.
6. Seek the guidance of the Holy Ghost so you will know what to include in
your prayers.
7. When you make a request through prayer do all you can do to assist in its being granted!

Scriptures: Psalm 46:1 God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Psalm 46.10 Be still, and know that I am God.


THE POWER OF PRAYER: REFUGE, PROTECTION, DIVINE, SAFETY, SANCTUARY

The power of your prayers depends on you.